person A: I’m confused about my identity, it’s so difficult, it’s all I ever think about and I feel like an outsider…
person B: Do you really have to identify yourself?
me: Obviously A has expressed a need to find his/hers identity, why are you telling him/her not to bother? Having an identity is very important!
person B: I didn’t tell them not to bother I only asked if it was necessary. I just wanted person A to know you can just be yourself.
What the fuck is the difference?? Can someone help me out here???
And what the heck does “just be yourself” mean? Are you less yourself if you want to have an identity?
I feel as if I’m on the planet of the apes here… Except my cat is more intelligent…